It's SO easy to quit when something is hard. So easy to quit trying to lose weight when sitting at the computer is much easier than hitting the pavement for a rain pelting run. It's easier to quit practicing the piano than it is to force yourself to sit on a hard bench day after day pounding the ivories.
For a moment, for a split second, I thought about not writing anymore. When my publisher and I split ways, it just seemed too hard, too overwhelming, and too depressing to keep going. I wanted to hole up and feel sorry for myself. I wanted everyone else to feel sorry for me too. I soon found I was miserable taking that route, so when my self imposed pity party was over, I pulled myself up by the boot straps and got back to work. I had to. I love writing too much.
Don't quit what you love. Don't quit what will make you healthy. Don't quit trying to improve your relationships. It's why we're here on earth--to learn to press forward, to learn to overcome difficulties, to become stronger, happier, healthier people.
This song says it all . . .
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So right, Melissa! I'm glad you didn't quit writing. Part of beating the temptation to quit is remembering or finding what we love about the thing we're doing. Will I see you at Storymakers?
Glad you didn't quit! Thanks for inspiring thoughts, well expressed - a lovely, uplifting post :-)
THanks, Melissa! This is such a good reminder. I hear myself telling my kids they can't give up on something just cuz it's hard. We have to follow the same advice. And writing IS hard, publication even harder. But in the end, it's what we love to do.
No, mustn't quit!! :-) Your dreams and health and happiness are worth the effort!!
Great stuff!!! Thank you! Take care
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Good word choice: Quite a few bloggers were blogging the dreaded "Q" word: Query!
I agree -- one musn't quit. Pause, maybe, and rethink. But quit? Never!
Quit is a dirty word in my vocabulary. As an unpublished author (well, I've co-written a pb book and it's published) of my own work, I have to admit that I've had many days where I thought it would be easier to quit. No such luck. I get so crabby if I don't write. I have to let that creativity out some place, and the page is exactly where it's supposed to go. We can't achieve our dreams if we quit.
I know I feel like quitting on a regular basis, but I can't. That's a good thing! Thanks for a little pep talk today.
This post makes me happy. I love that song!
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Great post! As they say, "Quiters never win and winners never quit." I hope to never quit the race I am in as I press toward the mark, or reward of the Son of God!
Gregg Metcalf
Colossians 1:28-29
Gospel-driven Disciples
I love that song. it's the one my mom used to sing on the days when she'd come into open the blinds and wake us up in the morning.
You hit the nail on the head. Gotta keep after what you want. If you love it, you won't stop.
Sig
Great song and I agree never give up, never give in.
Very good advice! I am pretty good about not quitting EXCEPT dieting... I fall off that particular wagon frequently. My worst tendency though, is to just keep adding stuff... I quit nothing and I just have too much on my plate...
This is a wonderful post! Writers can always use a boost of encouragement. :) And I'm your 400th follower, woohoo!!!
Thanks for stopping by my blog, Melissa!
(PS. I like how under favorite books in your profile you put "there's no such thing." SO true. It's much too hard to choose a favorite!)
Good for you for continuing to write. It can be very tempting to quit sometimes; I've found that one way to avoid quitting is to make whatever you want/need to do into a regular habit. So, for example, it was much easier to work out regularly once I got used to going to the gym on the same days each week.
Great post! Never quit! Good for you. I admire spunk.
Great post; I have been down about some of my art work and needed this!
Thank you; nice to meet you!
"Never give up, never surrender!" -- Galaxy Quest
Hello Melissa. Lovely to meet/follow you. Q is the hard one unless you're doing a travel series of posts for the challenge. Qwerty keyboard looking at me here.
Thanks for popping by and following my travel blog. I'm no quitter either!
Denise<3
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